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Fate of the old aged Parents.
Our Vedic culture and traditions says and we believe that marriages are made in heaven. And we know that the marriages are the permanent union of two different families but not the union of only married individuals – legally for the sake of sex. Marriages in our Veda Bhoomi and in our Vedic people is to give more protection for the off springs, parents, grandparents, grand grand parents, elders, and on the whole for the entire joint families which ultimately protects the children and old persons of that particular families which leads in protecting the entire village and country.
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In Our Country, each and every married couple develops their family to protect the entire joint families, relatives, friends, village and the country. This is our Vedic Culture, the highest valued culture in the world. We have individual opinions. We quarrel, we argue, we cry, we respect, we honor, we take care on entire family members, we sacrifice for each other. To protect us by all means – we pray our various Gods and Goddesses, Gurus, Brahmins, elders, well wishers, and Village heads. We help, we support, and we sacrifice if any of our family members or friends has any problem. This is the essence of our Veda Bhoomi and our Vedic culture and our Hindu culture.
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We, each and every one have these attachments and these are the highest family attachments. No one will deny this. Dear great Indian diamonds, we all now need to re incarnate our original culture, traditions. We do it. Our Hindu culture, country is the greatest country in the world. Remember just a ‘ Rakhi Bhandhan’ builds a strong attachment between brothers and sisters to protect the sisters in this country. You can see in the history in the battle of the King Porus ( Purushothama ) and Alexander. Such a great attachments are there in our all traditions and culture of the Indians. The children born to the Hindu families also take the responsibility upto their great extent till their last breath for following the traditional festivals, poojas, cultures, respecting and following the elders, loving all family members, following and sacrificing themselves for their family members and for the village or town or city and for the country.
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Greatest and Highest values of the Raksha Bhandhan in India from ancient times.
We protect our sisters in India even giving our head cut to any one. And this is for the protection of our sisters. It is for the sake of the love, affection and value honored for the sisters which protects ultimately her family members too. This is called as brother and sister relation. In the same way sisters loves their brothers.
We the Indians have a symbolic representation of this as a ‘Rakhi’. Sisters Ties or Sends the Rakhi as the ‘Raksha Bhandhan’ to their brothers. We perform this as a festival on the full moon day and it is called as ‘Rakhi Poornima or Rakhi Pournami’.
In the History, emperor Alexander’s wife (Roxana or Roshanak) noticed the power and strength of King Porus (king Purushothama) and she sent the Rakhi to the king Purushothama in the night just before the battle which is in the morning. In the Battle when the Great king Purushothama lifts his Sword to cut the head of the Alexander, he remembers that Roxana sent the sacred thread Rakhi to him and he immediately drops the knife for the sake of the Sister Roxana, and he surrenders to the Alexander. First Alexander afraid that he is going to DIE and when the king Purushothama Drops Down his Sword & surrenders to Alexander he could not understand what happened. Alexander was astonished after knowing that his wife sent Rakhi to the King Purushothama and that saved his life, This is the highest value that the Indians give to the Rakhi. And the Indian characters and traditions saved his life in the battle. We the Indians basically and genetically Hindus respect each and every one and religion on the globe.
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Our Indians had the best combined family structures, cultures, festivals, traditions, respect, moral ethics, knowledge, intelligence, obedience and everything since Vedic period. Our grandparents and parents in our family are not scrap they are the founders of your present family. Without them we are not here.
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Lord Macaulay’s Address to the British Parliament on 2nd February, 1835. ….I have travelled across the length and breadth of India and I have not seen one person who is a beggar, who is a thief. People are well settled, all in peaceful and are one. They respect elders and follow them. For all spiritual, traditional, cultural and festivals, suggestions, planning, medicines, and technical or scientific they follow the dare intellectual and sacrificing people Brahman varna all over India.
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Such wealth I have seen in India. Such High moral values, people of such caliber, that I do not think we would ever damage and conquer this country, unless we break the very backbone Brahman varna of this Nation, which is her spirutal and cultural heritage, and, therefore, I propose that we replace her old and ancient education system, her castes, her families, culture and traditions. for if the India think that all that is foreign and English is good and greater than their own, they will lose their self esteem, their native Brahman culture, they will become what we want them and ours a truely dominated Nation.
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Let first attract the untouchables and lower race people in coasts and villages make rebels. Let brahmans disrespected, blamed to leave people. And then people become corrupted, helpless, and get british countrol and let this for generations. British missionaries and christian church enter costal and, villages as evangelical Christians and, run thousands of educational institutions, hospitals and churches contributing significantly deep roots to development of christian religion and nation. And, we let enter all record and inventions as our own in books and will tell science is British development and stay on our name to damage Brahman traditions and culture, and conquer India.
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English educated Indians would come more into contact would progressively transform Indian society. They would engaged in the work of converting natives to Christianity. Further company should stop financial support in publishing classical languages of Sanskrit and Arabic because texts in those languages stayed in the warehouses where as English books flew off the shelves, and everywhere. The Company’s turbulent history dated from its Charter of 1600 which gave it monopoly rights over eastern trade. The company had been religiously neutral in a positive way.
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Its practice of making donations to temples and mosques and its refusal to allow Christian missionaries its territories had enraged evangelical MPs. Increasing hindu gods on minting coins elsewhere is giving positive to get countrol on Hindus. They now overturned the ban. There are already converted Christians in India. Syrian, Roman Catholics, Portuguese already spread slowly to their extent since before 1600.
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Kindly note in the same way the Dutch, French, Portuguese, Roman catholic and many other missionary works in India planned to damage the Indian country, Hindu culture and traditions after decline of Moghals and Muslim rulers. Prior to British, Moghals and Muslims also damaged the Hindu country for centuries to a great extent. After British occupied entire India, Muslims jointly with Hindu people fought with British people for independence. And at the time of having Independence Muslims forced and divided from India based on the religion. Here also British and selfish politicians played a big cunning role in dividing the India and Pakistan. Pakistan includes east Bengal ( Now Bangladesh ) and they are on either sides of the India. West Bengal has maximum jute cultivations and east Bengal is having Maximum Jute Industries. After Independence economy in both were disturbed. The Produced crops are useless and thousands of Jute Industries without raw material are closed.
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NATIONAL POLICY:-In view of the increasing need for intervention in area of old age welfare, the Ministry of Social Justice and Empowerment, Government of India, adopted a ‘National Policy on Older Persons’ in January 1999. The policy provides broad guidelines to the State governments for taking action for the welfare of older persons in a proactive manner. It defines ‘senior citizen’ as a person who is 60 years or above and strives to ensure their well-being and improve the quality of their lives by providing specific facilities, concessions, relief and services and helping them cope with problems associated with old age. It proposes affirmative action on the part of government departments for ensuring that the existing public services for senior citizens are user-friendly and sensitive to their needs.
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The present life style is totally busy scheduled one to anyone. So it is better to attach the children to take care about our parents. So involving our children to get attached with the grandparents is somewhat better for the satisfaction of the grandparents. We have to celebrate our family festivals such as birth days, marriage days, and any other occasional remembrances festivals, and cultural programmes, festivals, week end different functions. In general to solve the aged people’s problems only we have a number of major festivals and minor festivals in every month. This is present in only Hindu culture. Our Vedic culture and traditions satisfies every person in every family and in every race in our Country.
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We don’t discourage the Parents and Grandparents and compare with our earnings, with our status, with our lively circumstances that which we are enjoying now. We remember our parents struggled their entire life to bring us to this position which is exclusively for us only; the most important point is we had forgotten the care taken by our parents for our development. It is our minimum human behavior to take care regarding our parents. We have to remember one most important point in our earlier life – our parents cared 24 hours in different ways to protect, care, feed, teach, assist, support and develop and everything for us.
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Now due to the involvement of western culture, and some dirty unethical movies, the traditions and cultures are going on disturbing the entire people in India. Particularly the Youth are going affected. We can see the slow poisoning of the culture, traditions, arrogant behavior of off springs, friends and relatives without ethics and morals, take it easy policy, whoever they may be – exposing and then fuck and forget principle, If this continues for few generations, then we can see the future just like the people only for sex and leading luxuries unsecured lives with small families and isolated starving elders begging on the roads. Present people, who are like this, will forget after a period of time and this repeats in the next generation and in the same way, they will also be the main victims for the western style of changes they accepted and followed.
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Now throughout the India, due to this type of social changes, we are seeing the old age people (Parents, grandparents) as labors or in the old age homes, pension homes, senior citizen homes. Orphan homes, on the roads, becoming beggars in unknown premises, victims of the hungry deaths and various diseases and suicides, Based on this some people are constructing and maintaining the old age homes on the charity basis or on the monthly paid basis. Dear Indian Diamonds.. Is this type of human adulteration is advisable in our Veda Bhoomi and in our Vedic people ? The persons who gave our most valuable life are facing tragedy situations, Please React Now and rectify your wrong decisions. Invite your GOD and GODDESS with your tears on their feet.
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Your parents feel happy when you care for them, when you spend some time to talk with them, when you play with them. When you take your morning or evening snacks, tiffin, meals with them. When you introduce them to your friends and to your colleagues, when you respect them. Involve them in your cultural programs, festivals, felicitations, functions, rituals, and with your weekend trips to anywhere along with your children and spouse. They will be happy when you talk how they cared for you and struggled to bring up you from your child hood and when you talk memorable moments in your happy child hood period.
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We have to Consider this now, out of every 10 elderly couples in India; more than 6 are forced by their children to leave their homes. With no place to go and all hopes lost, the elderly have to resort to old age homes, which do not guarantee their happiness and peacefulness. In India the parents do not leave their children on their own even after they are grown (of course there are exceptions), but children find it hard to accept the fact that there are times when parents want to feel the love that they once shared with them. There are times when parents just want to relax and want their children to reciprocate their care. Every parent wants to see their child grow and be successful but no parent wants their child to treat them like an unnecessary load or scrap on their responsibilities.
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According to NGOs incidences of elderly couples being forced to sell their houses are very high. Some elderly people have also complained that in case of a property dispute they feel more helpless when their wives side with their children. Many of the old parents suffer in silence as they fear humiliation or are too scared to speak up. According to them a phenomenon called ‘grand dumping’ is becoming common in urban areas these days as children are being increasingly intolerant of their parents’ health problems. After a certain age health problems begin to crop up leading to losing control over one’s body, even not recognizing own family owing to Alzheimer are common in old age. It is then children began to see their parents as burden. It is these parents who at times wander out of their homes or are thrown out. Some dump their old parents or grandparents in old-age homes and don’t even come to visit them anymore. Their life ends in tragedy.
Worst Fate of the old aged Parents.
Forget the rights that the elderly enjoy in India. Just forget about the action that they can take. Think on moral grounds. Why do we tend to forget that the reason we are in this world is our parents, the reason we studied is our parents, the reason we were alive all this while is our parents, the reason we survived all the diseases is our parent’s care. The hands who made us walk are our parents’. When we were kids we never thought of it but we knew that no matter what, our parents will be by our side. But when our time came to show our respect, to reciprocate the love, to show our gratitude, we back out. But the truth is that even when they are counting their last breath, they are still thinking of us! Do not treat your Parents like burden especially when they need you.
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We are aware that the elderly people’s problems are increasing day by day in our country due to the impact of the western culture which ultimately disturbs the entire joint families in the country. We know about the Joint Family system and individual style of family system. The Indian people mostly have the joint family system and mostly they invite their parents with love, compassion and with great respect towards them. This is the best philosophy with which Hindus are brought up. Parents enjoy a very respectable, honorable and respectable position in Indian way of life. Mostly we are with the best type of family life where we find deep love between the brothers and sisters, respect for the mother and father, Grandparents and Great grandparents and stay happily in one house.
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Elderly people ought to have deep love, compassion and sympathy to all the members of the family equally without any partiality to any one of them. They should communicate to all family members daily or at several times inquiring about their health and birthdays and important days of life they ought to enjoy in celebration such important incidents in life. This is the family love, family values and Family unity and is the best mission in Hindu Life. Whenever any opportunity arises, old people in the family try to explain the religious faith, and family Celebrations and ritualistic belief with which we are brought up. Now the reverse side of development is going in joint family’s breakup which is due to western style..
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Our parents tell stories of our ancient saints to small children and grand children so that they can follow our religious traditions, beliefs and understanding of our cultural heritage and our different languages. They teach in offering prayers and reading ancient scriptures, yoga, meditation, exercises and many to the children. The teach how to tackle stress in life which is the number one enemy in the human life, They make learning the controlling of the emotional levels, they teach universal love and human attachments with pets and gardening. They teach the economy values in different ways and fields which leads to a systematic leading of life. They teach traditional medicines and health monitoring that needs and how to live the leading life in a best way. Elders teach to remain tolerant and be sympathetic and polite to everybody in the house and society which are the main aspects of human life. As per the Hindu culture elder people are the living libraries and also pass some of our time to know what is happening in the country and world and also in the nature.
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Those who have a long marriage life live longer when both partners live together with love and compassion it is natural that they plan to live longer. Only thing is that they ought to have a compassionate and caring life. As marriage involves over the years keeping our relationship vital is well worth the effort it takes. According to latest studies and research people in long-term relationship in marriage tend to be healthier and more emotionally and financially secure than other people of their age. The people who are less tense by nature and higher in self-confidence as well having optimistic attitude leads an easy going approach in life. We must have positive attitude in life and it helps us to live longer. The optimistic people decreased their risk of early death by 50% compared with those who leaned more towards pessimism. In joint families there will not be loneliness in the old age life, Loneliness is more about psychic disconnection than physical solicitude. Sometimes loneliness is felt like near death condition. Hence don’t neglect your parents. It is the mirrior image of your future life.
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The role of grandparents is very helpful in when husband and wife have to work from morning unto night. The grandparents will take care of their children This creates an atmosphere of safety, confidence and surety in human life They have greater responsibilities and their services have helped their children to be successful in life Grandparents do parenting they will teach them what is right thing to do in life and what is wrong to do, what is a rightful character in life – Always speaking the truth, religious practices teaching stories, puranas, about god, about good and bad behaviors and characters, They teach how to treat mother, father, teacher, guest and god with great respect and regards. They teach them to distinguish between what is Joy and what is fun. This is the way to create family unity and adopting family values in life. Old Parents and Grandparents in Parenting plays very important role in the development of the Children in the house and in their life which will ultimately reflects their respect and care at your old age period.
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Reserve some special place in your house for offering prayers to almighty God. Make it a habit to offer prayers at this place so that children will follow you. Place icons of Deities and offer flowers and incense always to them. Teach them as to how to offer prayers at the religious temple. Whenever there is a birthday or important day of the festival, take them to the temple and teach them as to how to participate. Teach them basic code of conduct in the Indian’s way of life, mostly they ought to follow truth and nonviolence, Teach how to be honest, compassion and love in life, fairness and justice, how to respect parents and grandparents, and teachers and guests . Teach how to be courage, self reliant, discipline and kindness in life. Teach them what are the good qualities and bad qualities of life. When you offer prayers, they follow you today or in future. Act nicely in everyday practice, this will set an excellent example to them teach them to wear clothes to wear at various occasions of the year. Explain to them our relationship with our family members. When there is family gathering introduce them to other members of the family. Ask them to communicate to them and talk about their studies and cultivate the habit of helping one another in future. If you follow this you will not be neglected by your children in future.
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As per the present style of generations, Financial setback at old age can be as dreadful as cancer. When you do not have money, your self esteem gets battered, your happiness gets shattered, and your morals are tattered to shreds. When you have to depend on others for your day to day survival you lose the respect of your children and others. You should save for yourself from your young age. Do not throw money around when you are young and active and repent when you are old and down. When you have saved money as a backup, it gives you a sense of well being. Old age is not to be feared. It is as good as your youth, provided you take it in your stride. If you think that you are elderly and hopeless, your life becomes useless. If you think that you are worthy and effective, you can lead a credible life. You age in body alone and your mind can be young and vibrating if you feel so. The real happiness if felt when all your children are well settled and are happy with their families. Then your parents feel happy. So, Take care for the elderly parents and relatives in the family. Unfortunately People usually everywhere on the glob will remember and talk about their mother land. But not about their Mother, Father and Grandparents who gave the life. We have to bring back our culture in every family in our country.
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We will fight and implement our methods to eradicate this present type of cultureless and aimless behavior induced for the benefits of the western countries. The culture of the western countries is the best for them… It is not for our Indians who take birth in India, and also for the people who are the off springs of the Indian blood. Old age home only caters to physical needs of elderly persons to some extent but not the moral, psychological and economical needs. In general Old age Homes are for the Parents who are abandoned by their family, Senior citizens who have no family or assets, Women and men with chronic diseases, economically incapable old people, People who went through Elder Abuse and etc.,
For many senior citizens the problems of life begin at home. Elder abuse can be in the form of physical abuse, psychological abuse, economic abuse and neglect & isolation. The biggest challenge with elder abuse is that it is usually hidden. A sense of fear that they may be abused more if they speak up leads to elder abuse being hidden. The old aged persons are getting reflected the most tragedy events.
Old age is also a very vulnerable phase in the life as there are various uncertainties that undergo with the children and society. So everyone should be bold in the last face of the life. Health becomes biggest worry, money becomes a big issue. Loneliness starts to rule the old age; the sad thing is that most of the old aged feels that their children do not care and discarded them.
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